First Enema - Part 4

Notes for the giver:

The giver has a great deal of responsibility. He has to see that his partner enjoys (or at least tolerates) a process that is often embarrassing and unpleasant. Your job can be much easier if you'll do the following things:

1. As you lubricate your partner's anus: lift her upper "cheek" until the anus is stretched open just a bit. You should be able to see the "entry point" for your finger. Next, put the tip of your lubricated finger against
the center of your partner's "rosebud;" gently press in. Your finger should begin to slide in (especially if you are at the right spot). Continue to press, and let your finger enter your partner's anus slowly. Be gentle.

2. As you insert the nozzle: follow the same instructions I've given for your finger. A properly placed nozzle does not need to be forced in.  A gentle pressure against the anal opening is all that's needed, and the nozzle should slide right in.

3. Be sure that the bag is not hung too high (3 ft. max above your partner's anus), and that the water is very warm (you should be able to just barely hold your hand in it).

4. Open the clamp slowly. Don't try to give her the entire enema without stopping, and be sensitive to her needs. I always suggest that the enema be given with her lying on her side and you seated behind her so that you can manipulate the nozzle and the clamp that adjusts the flow.  Sometimes massaging her belly helps as the water flows in. If she is really full of fecal matter (shit...), just give half the bag, refill after she expels, and give her the entire bag the second time. Always remember that this is supposed to be enjoyable for both of you, even if the "scene" you're playing is punishment, and talk her through the hard parts. Use the clamp or a hemostat to regulate the flow so that the enema doesn't flow in too fast.

A well-given enema can take as much as 15 minutes to inject.

5. When the enema is all in, help her up (leave the nozzle in), and follow her into the bathroom. Then remove the nozzle with her seated on the toilet so she can expel.

If this all intrigues you, write me care of the Ms Star.  I give enemas in the same way I write about them--with care and kindness (unless you've been a bad girl...). Also, drop me a note and let me know what you think of the preceding recommendations. I live in Southern California.

Ben Dover (my command is your wish)

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